It's Time to Let Go of the 'Shoulds'

and Write the Best Chapter of Your Life

I'm Hilary, and I'm delighted you're here 


As a Gen X woman I've been where you are - hustling hard to do all the things:

  • Make my mark professionally
  • Get¬†to drop-off, pick-up, baseball - freaking everywhere - on time all while listening in on calls or answering emails
  • Spend quality time with my husband and kids
  • Keep¬†relationships with friends and family thriving
  • Get plenty of exercise¬†
  • And oh yeah...sleep¬†¬†

Eventually I decided something needed to give.  I had to figure out who and what I wanted to be when I grow up, and I'm so glad that I did.

Now on the other side, I have clarity about who I am, what I want to create and how I prioritize my time.  As a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach I love helping ambitious women live unapologetically with joy.

If you're ready to take the first step to create a career and life you love, I've got the roadmap and would be delighted to walk alongside you on your journey.  

We've Hustled to "Have It All" and Now We're Ready to Give Some of "It" Back

If your current situation looks great on paper, but nothing feels quite right, know that you are not alone.

As a Gen X woman you've been hearing since you were a little girl that you can - and should - "have it all."  And chances are you're exhausted trying to please everyone, yet feel like you should be doing more.

It's time to reset because it's never too late to figure out... 

What do you want to be when you grow up? 

This program is specifically designed to address the unique challenges Gen X women face.  It will help you gain deep insights into who you are, create a crystal clear vision of what you want, and empower you to write not just the next chapter in your life - but the best chapter yet.

It's time to let go of expectations, lead with your strengths, love what you do, and live unapologetically with joy! 

Let's Get Started

 This program is ideal for you if:

  • You have a "great job" but don't feel fulfilled
  • You want to discover your professional purpose and make a meaningful impact
  • You are tired of trying to figure out who gets the best of you, and want need true work / life harmony
  • You've been outplaced and are ready to reimagine your career
  • You're looking ahead and planning for an empty nest and active retirement


It's not about blowing up your life, it's about reimagining it.  Learn how to disconnect from the expectations of others to reconnect with your most authentic self and your vision of a great life. 


Everything in life is created twice - first we imagine it, and then we create it.  You will create a crystal clear vision of what you want that aligns to your core values  - the roadmap to the career and life you want to create. 


This is where big dreams meet strategic thinking.  We'll use business best practices to identify benchmarks, key metrics and craft an actionable plan.  


Now it's time to make that vision a reality with small but mighty steps that get you from where you are to where you want to be. 

Take Your First Step Today

If you're like me, you like to jump right in.  Get started with this free worksheet to identify your Core Values, the compass for your life.

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Coaching is a powerful way to unlock your potential and reach your goals.  With clarity about who you are, what you truly desire, and what beliefs or fears may be holding you back, you can take the action you need to make meaningful changes - without years of therapy!

Customized homework assignments between sessions (don't worry, nothing is graded and there's no math involved, I promise!) will deepen your learning and help you reach your goals. 

I am here for you every step of the way as you reconnect to your most authentic self, discover your unique purpose, and create your roadmap to joy. 

Here's what to expect:

  • Step¬†1: Know Who You Are¬†

Develop a deep Self Awareness by identifying your Core Values, discovering your Strengths, and meeting your Saboteurs   

  • Step¬†2: Know What You Want

How do you define a good life?  Create a roadmap for your good life using the 6 dimensions proven to drive wellbeing and life satisfaction

  • Step¬†3: Dream Big

Get crystal clear on what you want to create by developing your Vivid Vision for a life well-lived 

  • Step¬†4:¬†Plan Well

This is where your Big Dreams meet Strategic Planning to create your actionable roadmap that brings your Vivid Vision to life

  • Step¬†5:¬†Take Meaningful Steps

It's time to make your Vivid Vision your reality by taking small but mighty steps that keep you moving forward in the direction of your dreams. You'll learn how to stay in Creator Mode and get out of the Drama Triangle that keeps us stuck

  • Step¬†6:¬†Stay Out of Your Own Way

Discover the formula for change and learn how to quiet your Saboteurs and move past resistance

Choose a Program That's Right For You

One-to-One Coaching


Per Session

  • Personalized program tailored to your specific goals, and learning style
  • Delve deeply into topics aligned to your unique needs
  • Flexible scheduling adjusted as your goals evolve



Group Coaching


Per Session

  • Join a supportive community of like-hearted women
  • Gain valuable insights from the diverse experiences and perspectives of others
  • Share the energy and encouragement from group discussions



Have Questions?

No problem!  Schedule a call and let's chat.

Schedule a Free Consultation